For the woman questioning her marriage, navigating divorce, or rebuilding a life that finally feels like her own.
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There are the enormous decisions. Do I stay or go? When do I leave? What do I tell the kids? What can I afford?
And there are the ones that ambush you on an ordinary Tuesday. The text from your ex. The boundary you know you need to hold. The moment you were certain yesterday and suddenly aren't today.
You shouldn't have to figure out every part of it alone.
Divorced twice. Rebuilt twice. I've spent over a decade coaching women through exactly this — and I've talked about it publicly, too.
Valerie Jones on CNBC Today's Business Minute with Hilary Lane.
“If you've ever wondered what it might be like to finally put yourself first, this book is your guide and Val is your champion.”
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I've been divorced twice.
The first time, I left a 24-year marriage with three kids, no career, no degree and no idea how I was going to build the life on the other side. So I did what women do. I figured it out.
My second divorce was different — by then I'd built my own career and financial independence. And I learned something I wish every woman knew:
Leaving the relationship is not the same thing as rebuilding your life.
I'm a professional coach, author of The Selfish Year, and I've spent thousands of hours coaching women through exactly this chapter — the decisions, the identity questions, and the deeper work of trusting yourself enough to decide what happens next.
Maybe you're still deciding. Maybe you're in the thick of it. Maybe the papers were signed years ago and you're realizing you're ready for more than just getting through it.
You just have to decide you're not going to disappear from your own life anymore.
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