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The Selfish Woman

Become an expert at living.

This is for the woman who suspects her most interesting chapter has not happened yet.

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From The Selfish Year by Valerie Jones

self•ish

/ ‘selfiSH /

adjective

  1. 1. The radical act of honoring your truth, needs, and desires without guilt or apology.
  2. 2. Choosing self-trust over people-pleasing, even when it’s uncomfortable.
  3. 3. A sacred rebellion against martyrdom, self-abandonment, and invisibility.
  4. 4. The foundation for generous, joyful, sustainable giving — born from overflow, not obligation.

Example

She stopped explaining, pleasing, and shrinking.
Some called it coming home.

Read The Selfish Year

The magic begins when you choose yourself.

Four Doors

Choose your door.

Every woman enters the world of The Selfish Woman through a different door.

01

Looking for a sign?

Read the book.

The book that started the movement. A powerful narrative guide and a radical invitation to finally put yourself first.

Get The Book

02

Need a voice in your ear?

Listen to the podcast.

The confession booth for women who are done being good, and the cultural argument for why selfish women will change everything.

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03

Ready for a different life?

Join The Society.

A gathering place for women creating lives that feel bigger, richer, braver, and more alive.

Come for the coaching.
Stay for the conversations.
Stay longer because you finally found women who speak your language.

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04

Want personal guidance?

Work with Valerie.

Private opportunities for women seeking deeper support, strategy, and transformation.

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You’re standing at the edge of a new chapter.

Maybe your life looks successful from the outside but feels smaller than it should.

Maybe you’ve spent years taking care of everyone else and aren’t quite sure where you went.

Maybe you’re craving more adventure. More friendship. More confidence. More honesty. More joy.

Maybe you’re becoming someone new and looking for women who understand what that feels like.

Or maybe you’re simply ready to stop waiting for permission.

Whatever brought you here, you’re not alone.

And you’re not the only woman asking, “What now?”

Extraordinary lives are not created by ordinary decisions.
They’re created by women willing to become extraordinary.

— Valerie Jones

Valerie Jones

Meet Valerie

Valerie Jones

Founder · Host · Curator · Editor-in-Chief

For years, I thought choosing myself would cost me everything.

Instead, it gave me my life back.

I created The Selfish Woman because I believe women are allowed to exist as complete individuals. With desires, ambitions, opinions, and lives of their own.

Today I gather women who are ready to stop postponing their lives and start living them. Beautifully. Fully. On their own terms.

— Valerie Jones

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