Valerie Jones

I am the author of The Selfish Year, Host of The Selfish Woman Podcast, and certified Coach with a decade of experience helping women do the work to get their power back and create the freedom to live a big, fulfilling life.

Youโ€™ve been good long enough.
Welcome to your Selfish Era.

Itโ€™s OK to be selfish.

My book is a powerful narrative self-help guide for women ready to prioritize themselves and create beautiful lives.

The Selfish Year is a radical invitation to finally prioritize yourself and design a life that feels deeply aligned, fulfilling, and free.

It gives you a roadmap for reclaiming your power.

With practical exercises, mindset shifts, and real-life lessons, it will help you step into the most unapologetic, empowered version of yourself.

It's time to stop waiting for permission and start living life on your own terms.
The Selfish Year is your guide to becoming the woman you were always meant to be.

What Clients Say

  • โ€œVal takes no prisoners. She says it as it is and then some; however, it's done with love and support, and with her encouragement to see in yourself what she sees in you. Personally, I need the no BS approach to propel me forward.โ€

    โ€” C

  • "[Val's] book is a mirror, a map, and a movement. If youโ€™ve ever felt lost, burned out, or like youโ€™ve forgotten who you are, this is the book you need. Itโ€™s not just a read, itโ€™s a reclaiming. Truly transformative. Donโ€™t hesitate โ€” this one will stay with you."

    โ€” N

  • โ€œThanks to Valโ€™s support and relentless pursuit of my truth, I have begun to cross over from living the life I should be living, to creating the life I want.โ€

    โ€”L

Let me guessโ€ฆ

Youโ€™ve been struggling in a few of these areas:

  • Wondering whether you should stay or leave your relationship 

  • Stuck in cycles of conflict and drama 

  • Guilt (especially Mom guilt) 

  • Fearful of the impact divorce will have on your kids 

  • Emotional abuse 

  • Setting healthy boundaries, saying no, co-dependent relationships 

  • Recovering from divorce 

  • Fear has been running your life 

  • Lack of confidence, self love and self esteem 

And you long toโ€ฆ.

  • Burn the rule book 

  • Reinvent yourself 

  • Feel excited about your life again 

  • Get your mojo back 

  • Love yourself extravagantly

  • Create healthy, safe, loving relationships 

  • Feel confident, courageous and proud of yourself 

  • End generational patterns for yourself and your kids 

  • Ignite your dreams and desires 

  • Love who you see in the mirror 

  • Live in freedom, financial abundance, and joy

Get started right now! 

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โ€œVal takes no prisoners.  She says it as it is and then some; however, it's done with love and support, and with her encouragement to see in yourself what she sees in you.  Personally, I need the no BS approach  to propel me forwardโ€ - C 

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